| 05/19/2011 1:32 pm |
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Regist.: 12/26/2010 Topics: 142 Posts: 2128
 OFFLINE | Originally Posted by Scott Terry: OTOH, single's been much more fulfilling and happy. So it's no wonder why I like it.
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Some time ago, a friend asked me when I thought I might be ready to become available for intimacy. I responded that when I finally reach a point where I can look deep into myself and consistently no longer find things I know to be truly toxic to relationships, then I'll willingly become available. But then emotional availability is only half of the equation. Compatibility with another emotionally available person seems to be the other half. It's this other half that largely relates to my remaining single, and since I enjoy being single, I continue working on me and enjoying my enjoyment.
Back on what's normal, I feel what I'm doing is normal, but some feel that singly enjoying my enjoyment is selfish and abnormal - go figure  |
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| 05/19/2011 1:36 pm |
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Regist.: 12/23/2010 Topics: 221 Posts: 1299
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Though in retirement from the concept of male/female intimacy (I still have an abundance of it in other ways), I always was available for it. It's just that my life choices prevented it from being available to me.
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| 05/19/2011 4:21 pm |
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Regist.: 12/23/2010 Topics: 221 Posts: 1299
 OFFLINE | Originally Posted by Tiramisu Sue:
I prefer the term "extraordinary" LOL
That, you are. Very extraordinary!
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| 05/19/2011 4:46 pm |
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Regist.: 12/26/2010 Topics: 1 Posts: 241
 OFFLINE | Normal is those people I don't know very well. |
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| 05/19/2011 5:41 pm |
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Regist.: 12/30/2010 Topics: 1 Posts: 334
 OFFLINE | I'm unique, just like everyone else. |
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