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What do u think about this ? For u, whoever u r - Dom or Sub, what is your opinion/ ?
From my point of view, it shall be based, first of all, on TRUST.
Second, I think that each of the 2 shall be able to give something to the another one. I think that the Dom shall receive something but also the Sub shall receive something. Even if that is "unhappiness" - if the Sub needs that, it is OK. In principle, I think that each of them shall be happy - to say so. To be satisfied. If pain wants the Dom to give and pain wants the Sub to receive, then it is OK.
Friendship can also have a place in this - but not mandatory.
But how about love ? I think that we r going to a perfect relation ship if we consider also that.
U noticed something ? Practically, we can apply all those things to a RELATION, even to a MARRIAGE. They are applicable not only to BDSM - but also to a "regular" relation. But WHAT IS a regular relation ?

Expect your opinion.

PS. messages as "I like what u write" are nice, but let's face it: I expect more participation from your part. OK ?