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Do pics of your younger self upset you?
04/03/2011 9:49 pm

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Would it upset you if one of your lifelong friends posted a picture on their profile that consisted of them and you at a much younger age?

I haven’t done this, but a couple of my friends have, and the other person in the picture was upset in both occasions about the pics being posted. Maybe it’s a boundary violation, or a privacy thing, I dunno, but it did seem kind of harmless to me.

I thought about the vanity aspects. And what surprised me was in both occasions, the offended persons looked GREAT both then and now.

Would this upset you? Thoughts?
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04/03/2011 10:52 pm

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I think in my case it would depend on the picture.
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04/04/2011 12:26 am

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I agree with Leann for the most part, that it depends on the picture. But, being that I have lots of my pics posted when I was a kid, I doubt it would bother me any.
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04/04/2011 5:41 am

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nope post away
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04/04/2011 6:39 am

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I don't believe there are any incriminating pics of me... so I would be interested to see them if they exist
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04/04/2011 7:03 am

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I don't care for anyone posting pics of me without letting me know first....I just think that's rude. If I post pics of other people, I let them know before I do it and in the case of certain people, like my niece, I get her approval on the pic
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04/04/2011 10:05 am

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Originally Posted by Debbie Chastain Burton Briggs:
nope post away



What she said !
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04/04/2011 10:26 am

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Originally Posted by Wendy Vinca:
I don't care for anyone posting pics of me without letting me know first....I just think that's rude. If I post pics of other people, I let them know before I do it and in the case of certain people, like my niece, I get her approval on the pic

At this point, I think I agree with you, Wendy. Even though the pics I was referring to weren't at all inappropriate, I can see how this might feel like a boundary violation or rude. But it's so commonplace to do so here online. One friend posts pics of her marathons with her and all the other runners and I've never heard any of them express a problem with it. I'm thinking there's a lesson here, and it's still sinking in.
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04/04/2011 3:14 pm

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I've had people, mostly family members, post unflaterring pictures of me.  I just laugh and warn them that I could do the same!  
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04/04/2011 4:55 pm

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I actually prefer to be asked because there are some scary pictures out there! I wouldn't post pictures of someone else without permission (I even ask my kids first!).
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04/09/2011 1:56 pm

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Nope, lots of pics of me are posted on my page and the pages of my friends.

I was a dorky geeky kind of kid.... but hey, that was me!

I am what I am, I was what I was. I'm not ashamed or embarrassed.

I'm comfortable in my skin. If it makes you laugh, well hopefully you feel better about something!
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04/09/2011 3:31 pm

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I'm okay with it....as long as no one ever releases that sex video........

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04/09/2011 6:30 pm

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Originally Posted by Tiramisu Sue:
I'm okay with it....as long as no one ever releases that sex video........



Haha!
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