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We all know that men and women speak a different language. Or is it that messages are the same, but rather it's the speaker's use of language that prevents an effective understanding? What is your take on this?

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Originally Posted by Justin Toney:
We all know that men and women speak a different language. Or is it that messages are the same, but rather it's the speaker's use of language that prevents an effective understanding? What is your take on this?

The spoken word is often a barrier itself. What we say is often contrary to our own body language and the ridiculous amount of pheromones we attract the opposite sex with. Also there's that saying the eyes are a window to the soul. Words are not trust-worthy. You gotta rely on your instincts. We don't understand what the other sex is saying or meaning sometimes because we are too obsessed in our own interpretation (over-analyzing) and perception (biased). I think the best couples just let it be.


Okaaaaaay no more caffeine for the next two days.

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That is true, if one is good at seeing through the words the truth is already shown to them. The 'lies' within the speaker if what their saying isn't their true feelings, because they are not only hurting the other person but also themselves. Instincts are good, however, one must think before action and have discourse to understand each other.  What's hard for most of us, if not all of us, is to be 'objective' and not just 'subjective' with our own biased analyses.

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Originally Posted by Justin Toney:
That is true, if one is good at seeing through the words the truth is already shown to them. The 'lies' within the speaker if what their saying isn't their true feelings, because they are not only hurting the other person but also themselves. Instincts are good, however, one must think before action and have discourse to understand each other.  What's hard for most of us, if not all of us, is to be 'objective' and not just 'subjective' with our own biased analyses.

I agree.

Look we have 90 registered members now but none of them are posting. It might take a couple weeks to get some activity.

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I agree.

Look we have 90 registered members now but none of them are posting. It might take a couple weeks to get some activity.

Well hopefully people start becoming more interactive.